“Being Gay Is A Choice”

“Being Gay Is A Choice”

Being gay is in no way a choice. The only choice there is, is to live out your life being happy and who you are, or miserably living your life to the comfort of others around you. That is the only choice there is to make. Why would i choose to be Beaten, Discriminated against, Bullied and Judged everyday for the rest of my life. Why would any one in the right mind want to choose to be gay? I did not choose to be gay, and my sister did not choose to be a lesbian. It’s not her fault and it’s not mine ether. We where just “Born This Way” and so where 450 other species of animals around the world that frequently are gay to. But guess which species discriminates against it ?

Its ridiculous that our cultures claim to have come so far, become so advanced. But the truth is that we may be technologically advanced, but as a society there is little change. This will be the downfall of many cultures around the world. For example ” America The Land Of The Free” That line is such bullshit, america is filled with racism, sexism, and homophobia. Do you really think America is that advanced, i think not. How can they be advanced if they can’t even come together as a whole? ~ No offence to Americans that read this, it was not intended, but just an example of the many ridiculous things going around the world.

Being gay is like being a person of color, you were born that way. You don’t choose the color of you skin or the color of your eyes. Its Mother Nature gift to you, and it’s not your choice to make, its hers.

~When i say a person of color, i mean, white, black,brown,yellow,green and purple. 

“The Gay LifeStyle”

I actually find it offensive when people refer to orientation as a life style. It grinds me gears to hear people say ” It’s your choice to live that kind of life style” Or ” I don’t condone the gay life style“.

Blah it Makes me want to stuff a sock in their mouths. I do not have a Life Style, i have a life and im living it the way i want to, with no shame or things that hold me back. Most of the time I don’t care what people think of me, but at times it does get to me that humanity has come so far and yet has learned nothing but hate or fear of the unknown.

I feel as though i was born in the wrong century.

My Publications

So I received the documents from the two magazines that published my work.

RDF & PinkInk:

Little Monster Fan Tattoo

Her music woke my soul and made me love it so much  that i would get a tattoo as a tribute.

June 16, 2010

 

 

Crazy you say, for getting this tattooed… Perhaps i am. but this is my body, and i will do with it as i please, after all we die, and why not enjoy it while it lasts. I got this to mark my 18th birthday, my love for her music, my freedom. To remember that i am who i am, and nothing should keep me from being who i like. Theirs a little freak in all of us that we hide, why hide it any longer?

Gay Dama Movie: Christopher And His Kind (2011)

Plot: “ In 1931 budding author Christopher Isherwood goes to Berlin at the invitation of his friend W. H. Auden for the gay sex that abounds in the city. Whilst working as an English teacher his housemates include bewigged old queen Gerald Hamilton and would-be actress Jean Ross,who sings tunelessly in a seedy cabaret club. They and others he meets get put into his stories. After a fling with sexy rent boy Caspar he falls for street sweeper Heinz,paying medical bills for the boy’s sickly mother, to the disapproval of her other son,Nazi Gerhardt. With Fascism rapidly rising Christopher returns to London with Heinz but is unable to prevent his return to Germany when his visa expires. Years later Christopher,now a successful writer,returns to Berlin for a final meeting with Heinz,now married with children.”

Why: This is perhaps the best T.V movie for LGBT people ever made to date. Watch the trailer here. This movie is somewhat hard to find, so i had to download the torrent for it.. I do plan on purchasing it soon enough! this is a wonderful movie based on the novel of the same name. It’s really interesting, and you should consider watching this, the characters are very unique. 

Gay Romantic-Drama Movie: Beautiful thing (1996)

Plot: “in a suburb of London, young Jamie is escaping sport hours, to avoid being the victim of his comrades. Young Ste, his neighbor, is beaten by his father, and comes to sleep overnight. They discover new feelings, sleeping in the same bed.“

Why: I loved the story line to this movie, it was quite refreshing. It was sad that Ste was being abused by his father and his brother durring the film. The only thing i was disappointed with was the fact that it had some open ends to it. At the end, Jamie is going to be moving with his mother to own a pub, but is he going to leave Ste behind with his abusive family, or is he going to ask him to come along? it never really says. The actors where wonderful, the shots where to. All in all this film is great! 

Gay Comedy Movie: Bear City (2010)

Plot: “Set in New York’s gay “bear” scene and taking a cue from the popular HBO franchise “Sex and the City,” BearCity follows a tight-knit pack of friends experiencing comical mishaps, emotionally sweet yet lusty romantic encounters and a cast of colorful, diverse characters as they gear up for a big party weekend.”

Why: This bear movie is so worth the watch. It’s so rare that you ever see this type of movie out there. Its hilarious and deals with a lot of problems the LGBT & bear community go through. Its soo true when they say its like comming out for a second time when you admit you like Bears. This is one bear movie to watch ! Im very happy to say that their will be a Bear City 2 coming out in 2012! They should make a #3 or a spin off and cast me in it! lmao